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Memories
My
first recollections of the writer of these diaries are now only
fragments, a captain's chair in the dimly lit kitchen, dark stained
timber panel walls, the smell of fresh tobacco, back yard apple trees,
and an atmosphere of a bygone era.
Recently
I had the opportunity to return to Jacka Street, Essendon, and even
though I was unable to recall the house or its position in the street,
the familiar surroundings took me back to my childhood.
I can visualize the tall, frail grey haired man with a hearing
aid who lived in this street who periodically arrived at our house in a
taxi and myself waiting expectantly for the dollar note and the bag of
sweets that was always forthcoming.
These
are but a couple of the too few snippets that comprise my only memories
of my grandfather in his world.
When
I was five years old my grandfather came to live with us and lived out
his days in a flat added on to our house for him.
It was here that he made the greatest impression on me. The flat was modern for its time yet my grandfather managed
to bring a piece of the old world with him.
I remember the "spinning ash tray", the ANZAC medal and
other knick-knacks, but most vividly I remember regularly gazing for
what seemed like hours into a small frame containing an old hand painted
photograph of a young man in uniform.
Then one day I finally asked who he was and the reply came
quietly and with a note of sadness,
"That
was my brother Fred, your great uncle, who was killed during the Great
War, many years ago now."
It
was then that my interest was aroused and although too young to really
comprehend, I sat and listened in wonder to stories from the past, of
people long gone and times disappeared.
In the two decades since my grandfather's death I have on many
occasions lamented the fact that I was so young for I now know that my
grandfather was that living link with history, that wealth of first hand
knowledge that I search for even today.
The
final memories I have of my grandfather begin in the local primary
school ground during lunch hour. I
can even now see the ambulance turn out of my street and travel slowly
past the school and I can remember a feeling of unease and a sense of
knowing that somehow my life was going to be affected.
Finally I can still picture my grandfather lying in his hospital
bed on my only visit, holding his hand but not knowing what to say, and
consequently not saying a word.
There
have been numerous people in my life who have influenced me but there is
a special place for "Pa" for it was he who inspired in me the
passion for times long past and the knowledge that they must be neither
forgotten nor dismissed as irrelevant.
I
am sure that in times to come when perhaps we meet again in some new
world, the first greeting will simply be,
"Good
morning if you use Pear's soap".
Tim
Lycett.
About
the writer:
William
Dalton Lycett was born in Middlesborough in
the County of Durham on 28th November, 1890, the eldest son of Harry (b.
7.3.1869) and his wife, Mary Hannah Dalton (b. 8.12.1872).
By 1908 the family had grown to six boys - Will, Harold, Harry,
Fred, Cliff and Frank and the youngest child, Dorothy.
The family moved frequently in the Middlesborough-Hartlepool area
and eventually returned to Crewe in Cheshire where Harry's family lived. Here Will and his father worked in the Railway Workshops
where Will served his apprenticeship as a boilermaker. As the diaries testify he also had a wide circle of friends
here and took an active part in Church and musical activities.
In
1910 the family migrated to Melbourne and for some time Will was very
lonely until he became a member of the Burns Club.
Here he played soccer and became a member of the Victorian Soccer
Team, and here also he met his Daisy (Daisy Gertrude Hill, b. 24.1.1891).
When
war broke out he enlisted, on 12th September 1914, and was sent to
Broadmeadows Army Camp. His
diaries tell the story of his war, and inadvertently, much of himself. What they do not tell is the story of the women at home, his
Mam who at one time had her husband and four sons in France and knew the
grief of losing a son, and Daisy, whose fiance and two brothers were
there. Her brother Vic also
never returned. It is cause
for regret that none of those letters written and received during the four
year period have survived, they would surely have completed the picture.
After
his return to Australia, on 31st March 1919 he and Dais’ were married
and eventually lived most of their lives together in Essendon in close
proximity to Will's parents and the families of his brothers and sister.
He worked at the Railway Workshops at Newport, and was deeply
involved in Freemasonry, but his health was consistently poor as a result
of his war experiences, and he was never again the cheerful, sociable
young man who went away.
Will
and Daisy raised two children, Evelyn born in 1923 and Bill in 1931.
Some time after Daisy's death in 1964 he went to live with his
son's family and became a great mate of his youngest grandson, Tim, who
listened by the hour to his Pa's stories of Gallipoli and France.
These tales engendered a great interest in the history and events
of the First World War and it is Tim who now owns the diaries and has
initiated this transcription.
Will
died on 5th April, 1975, and despite living in Australia for 65 years
still cheered for the English cricket team and was always an English
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